Consanguinamory After COVID

The past year (give or take) has been different for most of us, either because we were at home with family or we were distanced from family, due to the Coronavirus, or COVID-19 and physical or social distancing, "stay at home" living, and so forth.

More people than ever at least experimented with consanguineous sex (consensual incest). or just more physical affection with family members. Maybe you're one of them.

Or, maybe you've thought about it, but still haven't done anything.

Either way, with more and more of the planet opening up, what now?

If you started something, you don't need to stop.

If you wanted to start something, you might still be able to.

There's nothing wrong with close relatives or family members sharing and normalizing (more) cuddling, snuggling, spooning, hugging, kissing, touching, going without clothes, bathing or showering together, massaging each other, or talking about sexual feelings, desires, fantasies, or other sexual topics, or sharing sex.

Whether you're blood relatives, step relatives, adoptive relatives, in-laws, or honorary relatives, there's nothing wrong with your feelings and, depending on the circumstances, there may be nothing wrong with sharing more affection. 

You might need to read one or more entries on this blog that I list below. Feel free to contact me.

Here's a special message for young people. This can happen at any age, though, including people who are middle aged or older. 

Consanguinamory (Consensual Incest) FAQ

It's more common than most people think for close relatives to share sexual affection or experimentations. Intrafamial sex and romance is as old as time.

Do You Have Feelings For a Close Relative?

Do you think or know that a close relative has feelings for you? Have you been approached by your son or daughter; has your spouse?

Yes, it is OK. But should you "do it" in your specific situation?

You might be able to make it happen. If you're the parent, there is more to consider.

Taking it slow and cautiously might be the way, unless the two (or three, or...?) of you can't hold back. Sometimes, the ice just needs breaking.

Stepsiblings, stepparents, and stepchildren might want to read this.

Are you considering coming out as consanguinamorous? Or do you need to keep that closet door closed? Here are ways you can avoid trouble and how you can live together on an ongoing basis, if you'd like.

A message for family and friends.

How To Be An Ally to Consanguinamorous People You Know

Are you considering, or involved in, a situation that isn't monogamous?

Read exclusive interviews with close relatives who are involved in everything from spousal-style relationships to family-with-benefits arrangements.

If you've already shared sexual affection and are trying to sort everything out, this might help. 

If you can't be together geographically, you might be able to make the most of the distance. 

Again, you can contact Keith and you can comment below (including anonymously), so please share your thoughts, experiences, questions, plans, or anything else you want to share. 

You also have a place to talk about this.