Siblings Having Fun

We have yet another exclusive interview to bring you. As this interview is being published, there are many people still spending more time home with family members. Perhaps some of them will find this interview an inspiration? Or they can see this for some possibilities.

People in consanguinamorous relationships are everywhere, though consanguinamorists tend to be closeted. Fortunately, some are willing to be interviewed for this blog. As a result, Full Marriage Equality has featured scores of exclusive interviews with lovers denied the freedom to marry and have that marriage treated equally under the law. Most can’t even be out if the closet or they’ll gave prosecution under absurd incest laws, which, instead of focusing on abuse, also target consensual relationships.

Not everyone sharing consanguinamory considers their relationship a great love affair or a marriage, though. Some are experimenting, exploring, having recreational sex, or in a family-with-benefits situation.

The man interviewed below, should be free to legally marry his partner, or simply to be together as a couple without having to hide, yet they can’t. They are consenting adults who aren’t hurting anyone; why should they have been denied their rights? In much of the world, they could be criminally  prosecuted for their love, and might be persecuted severely in addition.

Read the interview below and see for yourself what this man has to say about fun they share. You may think this relationship is interesting, or it might make you uncomfortable, or you might find it ideal, even highly erotic, but whatever your reaction, should lovers like these be denied equal access to marriage or any other rights simply because they love each other this way?

Also please note that someone you love, respect, and admire could be in a similar relationship right now. Should they be attacked and denied rights because of the "incest" label?

**WARNING: Brief descriptions of sexuality.**


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FULL MARRIAGE EQUALITY: Describe yourself.

Marc: I am an 18 year old guy from Zagreb, Croatia. I am Caucasian like my family. I am currently in my final year of high school. I want to enroll in law school after that. In my free time I go to the gym and watch sports. I live with my dad, mum and younger sister. My older sister is 20 and lives in another part of Zagreb because she is in college dorm.


FME: How would you describe your gender(s)? How would you describe your sexual orientation?

I'm male, she is female. We are heterosexual and monogamous.


FME: Is she your full blood sister, half sister, stepsister, or adopted sister?

Full blood sister.

FME: What was your childhood like? What was family life like? Were alternative lifestyles/sex discussed in your family, and if so, how? Can you describe your sexual awakening?

My childhood was good. My family isn't that rich but we always had enough money for everything so it was always good. We never discussed anything like that. My sexual awakening started when I was 12-13 years old, when I hit puberty.


FME: How did sexual affection become a part of the relationship with your sister?

It started last year, in August 2020. I always had thing for my sister, she is smart, funny and on top of that, smoking hot. I'm not exaggerating, she is probably the sexiest girl I know. She has double D breasts and big, perfectly shaped ass. Also, she has that hour glass figure. As I said, I've been attracted to her for a long time. I used to masturbate to her social media pics and it definitively didn't help that she used to wear leggings or tight shorts around the house. That just affected me more, but I know that she wouldn't do anything with me.

Back in August 2020, she came home from college for a few days because she had a break from school. It was late at night, we were chilling in my room. I was playing computer games and she was on her phone laying on my bed. When I finished with my game, I lay down next to her and we talked a lot.

She told me that there is this one guy she was on date with, but he was total a--hole. He was boring.

I said that she deserves better and that and if I had a chance with her I would never disappointed her. That was a joke and I expected nothing.

But. she said to me "Who says you don't have a chance with me?"

I was surprised, I didn't know what to say. We both looked at each other for a few seconds and then I decided to break the silence. I put my hand on her waist, she looked at me and then I kissed her. I was expecting her to be mad, but she smiled and kissed me back while she touched my crotch. I was instantly hard. but I stopped and asked her if she knew what we are doing.

She said she was aware of everything and wanted us to continue.

Still, I went to my parents' and sister’s rooms to make sure they were asleep. I went back to my room and my sister and I had our first sex. It was wonderful, but I didn’t last long. The thought of me f---ing my sister in my room was too hot.

When we were done, we agreed that we had to talk in the morning. I wanted to make sure she was aware of everything and that I hadn’t hurt her in any way.

We talked and she told me that it was beautiful and that she wanted us to continue our playing. We agreed to be some kind of siblings-with-benefits, and the rest of that summer was the best period of my life.


FME: Before this had you ever thought this would be possible or enjoyable; did you have any opinion one way or the other about close relatives or family members being together? Do you, or have you had feelings like this for any other close family members whether they are genetic relatives or not?

I knew that if I ever get chance to have sex with my sister it would be best sex experience ever, because yes, she is hot and all that, but there is that incest taboo feeling of doing something "wrong". It makes it ten times better. I never expected it to happen because I didn't know anyone who experienced this and incest is banned here in Croatia. I also thought that my sister would think that I'm sick or something like that if I made a move to her. I only saw situations like these in porn movies but now I'm living it. I never really thought about it, I just saw my sister as a hot girl and I didn't really care for all the stigma about that. I never had feelings for anyone other in my family and also I never had anything sexual with them. I don't look at other family members like that.


FME: How do you describe the sex/lovemaking now? Taboo? Natural? Especially erotic? Some people say familial eroticism is inherently kinky, but I have found that for many it doesn't feel kinky. What about for you?

We had sex so many times so it's natural now, but I think that there is that taboo and kinky aspect of it that makes it special. Thinking that I'm f---ing my sister, which isn't normal by today standards, makes it ten times better. We like to talk dirty during sex, we like that we are doing something "so wrong" so I guess we like to embrace that kinky and taboo aspect of our relationship.

When we started our relationship, when our parents went to work, we had an empty house to ourselves. As soon as we heard the car start and leave, we would run to each other and f---. Our parents work in the same company and their shift lasts ten hours, so we had a lot of time. We f---ed in almost every room of the house, in the bathroom, in the kitchen, in our rooms, even in the hallway on the floor. But the most beautiful thing for me was when we would go to our parents' room and f--- on their bed. The very thought of being in my sister’s vagina on our parents' bed brought me to ecstasy.

We had sex five-to-six times during the day, we would only take breaks if she had online classes. We did everything except anal sex, we tried all the positions. This lasted until our sister came back so we had to stop.

On one occasion, I drove her to her college because her lectures started. I have a driver’s license, but not a car so I used my parents’ car. While I was driving my sister unbuttoned my pants and started giving me a head. I was in ecstasy so I turned off the road, and there we f---ed. I lowered the seats and we had enough room. The funniest thing of all is that many times I later had to go and wash the inside of the car. When I got home, my dad praised me for taking care of the car. If he only knew that his son and daughter just f---ed like animals in the car.

Last month we were at my grandfather’s birthday party. The weather was warm and the whole family was outside. My aunts, uncles and their children were also there. They asked me about my love life and asked me if I had a girlfriend. Of course with a smile I said I didn’t have a girlfriend and that I was single. I looked at my sister and gave her a smile. And she smiled because she knew what it was all about. It was one of the sexiest moments of my life, so I immediately became hard. I entered the house, my sister followed me with the excuse that we were going to look at Grandpa’s pictures.

We went to the second floor, approached the window where there was a curtain but you could see a table and people around it. We f---ed there and it was so good to watch all those faces and f--- my sister at the same time.



FME: Describe your relationship now. Is this girlfriend and boyfriend, an affair, or what? Are you more like spouses or siblings-with-benefits or something else? Do you see each other as brother and sister, or lovers, or are those two roles inseparable at this point?

We agreed that we would be siblings-with-benefits, for now. We talked about our status and we think that some serious love relationship would be too much for us. We still see each other as brother and sister, we're just brother and sister who have sex. We act like brother and sister when we are together, we act normal when we around our family, we talk about topics that your average siblings discuss. I see her as my sister but our bond is stronger than usual siblings.


FME: Does anyone in your life know the full, true nature of your relationship? What kind of steps, if any, have you had to take to keep your privacy?

Nobody knows. If our parents would find out they would probably kick us out of the house. We keep it as a secret.

Regarding our privacy, we never have sex when someone is home. We f--- only when our parents are at work and our sister at school. When we have sex at night, we make sure they are asleep and we close our doors. We figured out that we need to act normal and keep going with our usually daily lives.

When we started this adventure last summer, our sister was traveling with her school so when our parents would be gone for work we had full house for ourselves. We f---ed like rabbits, five or six times a day, but my friends started asking me why I am always in my house, why don't I hang out with them. Even my parents said that I need to go outside because they would think that I'm all day on my computer. Nobody knew I was inside my house all day because I was f---ing my sister like maniac. But we knew that we needed to slow down, so our plan is to have sex inside the house only when we are alone or at night. Sometimes we go somewhere with our parents' car and f---. My sister is in her college dorm so she comes home two or three times a week, so its easier to control our urges and keep living our normal life and not being caught or be suspicious.

On one occasion, my mom caught us when I was in my sister’s room. We lay naked but we were lucky with the blanket. I said I couldn’t sleep so I came to my sister to talk. She said nothing further. Also, once our sister almost caught us taking a shower together. She knocked on the door and asked my sister where I was because I needed to help her with something. I had to go out the bathroom window and enter the front door pretending to come from somewhere but it was worth it.

Also, I want to emphasize that my sister is on birth control because we realized that it is so much better because we f--- so much that we need too many condoms which are very expensive here.


FME: Are there any other disadvantages? Conversely, do you think consanguineous relationships have some advantages and some things better than unrelated lovers, especially between siblings?

The main disadvantage is that we must hide from the others, we can't be free, can't express ourselves.

Advantages? Believe me, sibling sex is so much better than regular sex. We've known each other since we were little, we know that we would never hurt each other, we know that we are completely safe in terms of health and we also have that brother/sister bond. We can have sex whenever we want to satisfy our needs, no need for stupid dates when you have someone inside your house and it's enough just to ask "wanna f---?


FME: What do you want to say to people who disapprove of your relationship, or disapprove of anyone having this kind of relationship? What's your reply to those who would say that this is one of you preying on the others, and that you can’t truly consent?

First, I would say they are wrong, but it is more important to say that no one has the right to interfere in someone else’s life. If two adults want to have sex or a love affair, that is their right. It doesn't matter if they are related. Everyone has the right to do what they want as long as it does not affect other people badly. And in this case it doesn’t affect others, my sister and I enjoy it together and don’t hurt anyone. Like many other people around the world. Of course, there are also cases when there is manipulation of one of the persons and such things should be condemned. That’s not OK, but if people like in the case of me and my sister talk and agree to a relationship it’s the most normal thing and that’s how things should look.


FME: If you could get legally married, and that included protections against discrimination, harassment, etc., would you? Or is this a different kind of relationship than that? Or are you too young to really think about that?

I think we’re too young to think about marriage, we haven’t finished our school either, we don’t have a job, so it’s frivolous to talk about it. And our relationship is of a different nature; we are siblings-with-benefits so we are not exactly like a loving couple.

However, if we continue with this adventure of ours in the future, I think we could become something more than a brother and sister who f---. If we feel anything more, I would definitely be in a relationship with her, marry her later, and then start a family. Why not?


FME: What advice do you have for someone who may be experiencing these feelings for a relative or family member, especially a sibling?

I think we need to think carefully and weigh the options. Unfortunately, not every person will look positively at such things. One should be careful and slowly examine the situation. Talk to that family member, see how he or she thinks and if you have a chance. If you realize they are not for it, don’t force anything because you don’t want to ruin that family relationship. You can also hope for a dose of luck for that person to be open and think like you, which happened in my sister’s case.


FME: What advice do you have for family members and friends who think or know that relatives they know are having these feelings for each other?

If they are adults and do it of their own free will, they should be allowed to do what they want with their lives. If someone is a minor or if someone is forcing someone to have sex, they should intervene because it is very dangerous.


FME: It might be too soon to know, but do you consider yourself consanguinamorous in orientation, or could you be fulfilled in a relationship with someone who isn’t a close relative?

Of course I could and would like to be in a relationship with someone who is not my family. It is also my plan in the future, but I am currently enjoying it with my sister and I think that sex with a family member is much more exciting than ordinary sex.


FME: Any plans for the future, especially with your sister?

Like I said, I want to enroll in law school this fall. My sister and I agreed to rent an apartment and live together. She is currently in a dorm so it would be much better if she could live in an apartment. We would have time to study, to hang out and of course, to have sex without fear of being discovered. It will be an opportunity to get to know each other better and see how we feel. I am very excited about my future with my sister.

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Clearly, these lovers were consenting adults who aren't hurting anyone, and yet they wouldn't even be able to exercise their basic human right to marry as things are now. They love each other and are happy, yet they are denied fundamental rights. They can't even be open about their love without risking prosecution!

Why should they be denied their rights? There’s no good reason. We need to recognize that all adults should be free to be with any and all consenting adults as they mutually consent, and part of doing that is adopting relationship rights for all, including full marriage equality sooner rather than later. People are being hurt because of a denial of their basic human rights to love each other freely.

You can read other interviews I have done here. As you'll see, there are people from all walks of life, around the world, who are in consanguinamorous relationships.

If you are in a relationship like this and are looking for help or others you can talk with, read this.

If you want to be interviewed about your "forbidden" relationship, or that of someone you know, connect with me by checking under the "Get Connected" tab there at the top of the page or emailing me at fullmarriageequality at protonmail dot com or see here.

If you know someone who is in a relationship like this, please read this.

Thank you, Marc, for doing this interview about your consanguinamorous relationship! We wish you well in your relationship with each other!