The "i" word often gets very strong reactions, but it is wrong to conflate abuse, assault, or molestation with romance, affection, or recreational sex between consenting people. That's one reason we prefer to use the term consanguinamorous or consanguinamory.
These relationships exist between close relatives who first meet well into adulthood as well as those who were raised with each other. They include "family with benefits" relationships and fully rounded romances. They can be youthful experimentation, golden years fun, short flings, lifelong spousal relationships, or everything between. They can be closed, monogamous pairings, open relationships, polyamorous, or otherwise nonmonogamous.
They also happen all over the planet and always have, regardless of race, class, educational status, or rural or urban settings. They are common enough that you know people who are having, or have had, such experiences, maybe even people you admire very much.
We don't apologize for that.
We hope you do or will do the same.
We are here to help people who are in, have been in, or want to be in such relationships. We support their rights and aim to assist them in their relationships.
Yes, some people are disgusted by the very thought. That's fine. They don't have to be involved in these relationships. But they shouldn't be able to interfere in the relationships of others.
If you, or someone you know, has had such experiences, or you have questions or comments, you're always welcome to contact Keith. You can also comment below (including anonymously). There is also a place to get in contact with others.
Here are other entries that might be of some help.
Interviews With the Consanguinamorous
Why Is Consanguinamory Illegal In Many Places?
Why Do I Feel This Way?
When Someone You Love Wants to Love You More
Should You Do It?
Sometimes The Ice Just Needs Breaking
For Parents Considering Consanguinamory
You Did the Taboo - Now What?
Consaguinamory and Reproduction
Coping With Being Outed as Consanguinamorous
Coming Out Consanguinamorous
How To Be An Ally to Consanguinamorous People You Know
great article for supporters
ReplyDeleteWell written, and quite right. Happy ConsanguinamoryDay. You have both my full support and happiness for those who know such pure love. David
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