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Whatever holidays you celebrate, or even if you don't celebrate any, we wish you a fabulous season full of warmth and love.
As it is time for the end-of-the-year and New Year holidays, this blog may not be updated as often as normal for the next few weeks. However, I will be checking, daily or more often, the various ways people can get in touch with me.
Whatever holidays you celebrate, or even if you don't celebrate any, we wish you a fabulous season full of warmth and love.
As it is time for the end-of-the-year and New Year holidays, this blog may not be updated as often as normal for the next few weeks. However, I will be checking, daily or more often, the various ways people can get in touch with me.
May you and your loved ones have peace, health, and happiness.
Some of you are, or will be, heading home for the Winter holidays and school breaks. Some of you have been home because you always are, and still others have been home or are heading back home due to physical distancing during the pandemic. Whichever is your situation, a lot of you are, or will be, spending more time at home with family.
If you're LGBTQ, polyamorous or any other form of ethical, consensual, or disclosed nonmonogamy, consanguinamorous, or otherwise in a relationship (or, NOT in a relationship) and some in your family are prejudiced against you because of it: I'm so sorry. You are worthy of affirmation. May you get through this time with as little trouble as possible.
If you do find, or already have found, yourself having feelings for. or sharing affection with, family members, you're definitely not alone. It appears that this year has seen more of that during this pandemic than any other time in history. And, as it was before, it was common enough for close relatives to share sexual or romantic affection that you certainly know people who have. You are NOT alone.
Whether you're blood relatives, step relatives, adoptive relatives, in-laws, or honorary relatives, there's nothing wrong with your feelings and, depending on the circumstances, there may be nothing wrong with sharing more affection.
Will you make the most of this time?
You might need to read one or more entries on this blog that I list below.
Here's a special message for young people.
Consanguinamory (Consensual Incest) FAQ
It's more common than most people think for close relatives to share sexual affection or experimentation. Intrafamial sex and romance is as old as time.
Do You Have Feelings For a Close Relative?
Do you think or know that a close relative has feelings for you?
Yes, it is OK. But should you "do it" in your specific situation?
You might be able to make it happen. If you're the parent, there is more to consider.
Taking it slow and cautiously might be the way, unless the two (or three, or...?) of you can't hold back. Sometimes, the ice just needs breaking.
Stepsiblings, stepparents, and stepchildren might want to read this.
Are you considering coming out as consanguinamorous?
A message for family and friends.
How To Be An Ally to Consanguinamorous People You Know
Are you considering, or involved in, a situation that isn't monogamous?
Read exclusive interviews with close relatives who are involved in everything from spousal-style relationships to family-with-benefits arrangements.
If you've already shared sexual affection and are trying to sort everything out, this might help.
If you can't be together geographically, you might be able to make the most of the distance.
If you're LGBTQ, polyamorous or any other form of ethical, consensual, or disclosed nonmonogamy, consanguinamorous, or otherwise in a relationship (or, NOT in a relationship) and some in your family are prejudiced against you because of it: I'm so sorry. You are worthy of affirmation. May you get through this time with as little trouble as possible.
If you do find, or already have found, yourself having feelings for. or sharing affection with, family members, you're definitely not alone. It appears that this year has seen more of that during this pandemic than any other time in history. And, as it was before, it was common enough for close relatives to share sexual or romantic affection that you certainly know people who have. You are NOT alone.
Whether you're blood relatives, step relatives, adoptive relatives, in-laws, or honorary relatives, there's nothing wrong with your feelings and, depending on the circumstances, there may be nothing wrong with sharing more affection.
Will you make the most of this time?
You might need to read one or more entries on this blog that I list below.
Here's a special message for young people.
Consanguinamory (Consensual Incest) FAQ
It's more common than most people think for close relatives to share sexual affection or experimentation. Intrafamial sex and romance is as old as time.
Do You Have Feelings For a Close Relative?
Do you think or know that a close relative has feelings for you?
Yes, it is OK. But should you "do it" in your specific situation?
You might be able to make it happen. If you're the parent, there is more to consider.
Taking it slow and cautiously might be the way, unless the two (or three, or...?) of you can't hold back. Sometimes, the ice just needs breaking.
Stepsiblings, stepparents, and stepchildren might want to read this.
Are you considering coming out as consanguinamorous?
A message for family and friends.
How To Be An Ally to Consanguinamorous People You Know
Are you considering, or involved in, a situation that isn't monogamous?
Read exclusive interviews with close relatives who are involved in everything from spousal-style relationships to family-with-benefits arrangements.
If you've already shared sexual affection and are trying to sort everything out, this might help.
If you can't be together geographically, you might be able to make the most of the distance.
Again, you can contact me and you can comment below (including anonymously), so please share your thoughts, experiences, questions, plans, or anything else you want to share.
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