Are you going to be at home with family while ringing in the New Year?
Who will you be kissing at midnight?
If you do find, or already have found, yourself having feelings for. or sharing affection with, family members, you're definitely not alone. It appears that the last couples of years has seen more of that than any previous time in history. And, as it was before COVID-19, it was common enough for close relatives to share sexual or romantic affection that you certainly know people who have. You are NOT alone.
Whether you're blood relatives, step relatives, adoptive relatives, in-laws, or honorary relatives, there's nothing wrong with your feelings and, depending on the circumstances, there may be nothing wrong with sharing more affection.
Will you make the most of this time?
You might need to read one or more entries on this blog that I list below. Feel free to contact me.
Here's a special message for young people.
Consanguinamory (Consensual Incest) FAQ
It's more common than most people think for close relatives to share sexual affection or experimentation. Intrafamilial sex and romance is as old as time.
Do You Have Feelings For a Close Relative?
Do you think or know that a close relative has feelings for you?
Yes, it is OK. But should you "do it" in your specific situation?
You might be able to make it happen. If you're the parent, there is more to consider.
Taking it slow and cautiously might be the way, unless the two (or three, or...?) of you can't hold back. Sometimes, the ice just needs breaking.
Stepsiblings, stepparents, and stepchildren might want to read this.
Are you considering coming out as consanguinamorous?
A message for family and friends.
How To Be An Ally to Consanguinamorous People You Know
Are you considering, or involved in, a situation that isn't monogamous?
Read exclusive interviews with close relatives who are involved in everything from spousal-style relationships to family-with-benefits arrangements.
If you've already shared sexual affection and are trying to sort everything out, this might help.
If you can't be together geographically, you might be able to make the most of the distance.
Who will you be kissing at midnight?
If you do find, or already have found, yourself having feelings for. or sharing affection with, family members, you're definitely not alone. It appears that the last couples of years has seen more of that than any previous time in history. And, as it was before COVID-19, it was common enough for close relatives to share sexual or romantic affection that you certainly know people who have. You are NOT alone.
Whether you're blood relatives, step relatives, adoptive relatives, in-laws, or honorary relatives, there's nothing wrong with your feelings and, depending on the circumstances, there may be nothing wrong with sharing more affection.
Will you make the most of this time?
You might need to read one or more entries on this blog that I list below. Feel free to contact me.
Here's a special message for young people.
Consanguinamory (Consensual Incest) FAQ
It's more common than most people think for close relatives to share sexual affection or experimentation. Intrafamilial sex and romance is as old as time.
Do You Have Feelings For a Close Relative?
Do you think or know that a close relative has feelings for you?
Yes, it is OK. But should you "do it" in your specific situation?
You might be able to make it happen. If you're the parent, there is more to consider.
Taking it slow and cautiously might be the way, unless the two (or three, or...?) of you can't hold back. Sometimes, the ice just needs breaking.
Stepsiblings, stepparents, and stepchildren might want to read this.
Are you considering coming out as consanguinamorous?
A message for family and friends.
How To Be An Ally to Consanguinamorous People You Know
Are you considering, or involved in, a situation that isn't monogamous?
Read exclusive interviews with close relatives who are involved in everything from spousal-style relationships to family-with-benefits arrangements.
If you've already shared sexual affection and are trying to sort everything out, this might help.
If you can't be together geographically, you might be able to make the most of the distance.
Again, you can contact Keith and you can comment below (including anonymously), so please share your thoughts, experiences, questions, plans, or anything else you want to share.
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Beautiful explanation
ReplyDeleteKeith, why do you do what you do?
ReplyDeleteI like to help people. I want people to have equal rights, know they're not alone, and enjoy themselves and each other.
DeleteWhy these particular people, these particular rights, this particular community?
ReplyDeleteSee here:
Deletehttps://marriage-equality.blogspot.com/p/about-this-blog.html
I support the rights of ALL. This group doesn't have enough advocacy, so I write more about this group. Thankfully, my fellow polyamorists are getting more advocacy, and my LGTBQ friends have even more.