If you have a good father in your life, whether genetic, adoptive, step, or honorary, are you planning anything special for Father's Day?
Some considerations if you have, or are considering, a more physical relationship with your father...
Some of you might want to share more physical affection with your father than you already do, and perhaps this is the time to make that step. This might help you decide, and this can help you make it happen. It can be a simple as making him a "father-with-benefits" if that is what you want. You can go slowly if either or any of you is nervous.
If you know he's interested, whether or not you can go along with it, let him have his fantasies.
If you can't see him in person, but want to give him a special greeting online, there are ways to do that.
If you're involved with your father, and he's struggling with it, check this out.
If you have an especially interesting Father's Day, or are planning something special, tell us about it by commenting below or you can email Keith at fullmarriageequality at protonmail dot com or reach him on Wire messaging app at fullmarriageequality.
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We must remember that this is a Day honoring real fathers - caring, loving and respectful of their children.
ReplyDeleteYes, children need to be respected, because life is more difficult for children, teenagers, and young people than for us adults, although it seems to us the opposite, because we provide them with a roof over their heads, feed and clothe them, pay for their schools and activities.
They are much more vulnerable and are constantly exposed to mental and moral danger due to their inexperience. It is very difficult for them to make the right decisions and they are very afraid that they will let their parents down. They are completely dependent on us for survival, and this creates an additional psychological burden for them.
They need a strong, healthy family, and the damage to the family in the form of violence between parents, infidelity, drunkenness, drug addiction, lies and hypocrisy, disorder in the house, malnutrition, dirt not only hurt them much more than adults, but also create behavioral patterns for them that can ruin their entire future lives.
That's why I'm especially appealing to fathers who have sexually romantic feelings for their daughters. Be very careful, be sensitive and attentive to them, to their needs and safety, especially if they are young. Your daughters, your loved ones deserve the best, not just sexual entertainment/fun and satisfying kinks. They deserve real men who put their interests above their own and constantly bring them joy.
Daughters, if you are sexually and romantically interested in your fathers, remember that a successful relationship with them can only be built on the basis of mutual respect, EQUALITY and the absence of harm to others. Yes, I want to emphasize the term EQUALITY, because relationship partners should neither humiliate nor force each other, no matter how young the daughters are and no matter how deep the age gap between them and their fathers is.
Father's Day is a good occasion for a daughter to express her love for her father, whatever it may be. If you are in love with your father, this is a good opportunity to hint at your feelings with a special gift, with a kind word, with your behavior. If you're already in a relationship, then you know what to do...
My wishes are the same for sons who have sexual feelings for their fathers. It's harder for sons because it's always harder for men to understand and articulate their feelings and desires, and it's harder to open up.
Every family, every couple should have their own traditions. If they don't exist yet now is the time to create them.