Vicky Wireko wrote at myjoyonline.com under "Reality Zone: Why would a father sleep with his biological daughter?"Without yet getting to the text of the piece, the terms need to be defined. By "sleep," she no doubt means intercourse. But is she referring to rape or is she referring to consensual sex? Rape and lovemaking are two different things. Rape should always be illegal. Lovemaking should never be illegal. But "biological daughter" can mean a woman the father didn't meet or didn't have a relationship with until she was an adult, or at least hasn't had a relationship with since an early age. Consanguinamory initiated through Genetic Sexual Attraction has a different dynamic than consanguinamory growing from an existing sociological relationship.
Why would a father make love with his biological daughter? I'm talking about CONSENT ADULTS here.
For many of the the same reasons a man would have sex with any woman:
He's a heterosexual male and she's a receptive or initiating female he finds attractive.
They love each other.
It feels good and is fun. This is especially true when it comes to consanguinamory.
To bond.
To express love.
To have children.
Some of them have been brought together through Genetic Sexual Attraction, some of them haven't.
There are many reasons, but they shouldn't need to justify it to anyone else. Why is ultimately theirs to share, not anyone else's business. Perhaps a better question is why wouldn't/shouldn't he? Sex is not a bad thing. Those who think it is are probably doing it wrong.
What did Wireko have to say? Let's see...
Everything is certainly wrong with a father sleeping with his blood daughter.Does she give a reason?
It is repugnant apart from the fact that it is a taboo in our custom.Ah, Discredited Arguments #1 and 2.
However, when a father’s love for his daughter straddles beyond parental love veering off to lust, to the extent of sexual abuse, it becomes horrendous.Abuse and lovemaking are two different things. She goes on to write about abuse, without giving a good reason as to why consenting adults shouldn't be free to share love, sex, residence, and marriage. Don't like it? Don't do it. But there ARE adult women in loving spousal-type relationships with their biological fathers, despite what prejudiced bigots think.
Please also see Intergenerational Relationships Can Work
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I agree with what you've said. my family tree is filled with generations of incest; hell, my parents are half-twins and they seem pretty happy to me! Now I'm living happily in an incestuos-polyamorous relationship with my father and brother and gave birth to a beautiful and healthy girl from that same love everyone said is evil and wicked. Incest isn't evil; rape, abuse and prejudice are! we had to flee to an uninhabited island to escape persecution. so pls ppl, lift the ban against incestuous love, allow ppl like us to live a normal life
ReplyDeleteI agree with the comment above. There is nothing wrong with any relationship as long as all parties are consenting. The whole genetic argument for incest doesnt hold water. Yes, there may be increased chances, but increases or no, you can't have an increased risk to a genetic defect if you don't have the defects to begin with. Besides, the majority of gene defects in a person come from external influences like chemicals or natural radiations. On the other hand, incestuous relationships would actually "purge" the population of genetic problems due to those with defects possibly having less mates. So it would actuall be distilling the population. But that eugenics and I'm not a big fan of that, I'm just stating the obvious. Thats how dog breeders do it. But yes, definitely, incestuous marriages(or any marriage) should not be condemned or unlawful. People who fight and are abusive should. Of course once again from a higher perspective maybe even some people need domestic violence in their life on occasion. ;) lol In all seriousness though, a loving, caring, compatible relationship should be whats sought, not material wealth or gain, not this person fills my needs(because people change), not peer pressure etc.
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