You are welcome to reach out to me. Although there are now, thankfully, many places for LGBTQ+ people and nonmonogamous people to find others and supportive people to talk with, it can still be difficult for people with consanguinamorous feelings or experiences to find someone to talk with.
Anyone can reach out to me, Keith, and I never share what someone tells me privately with anyone else unless you give me permission. Thousands of people have contacted me over the years. You can see for yourself how long this blog has been here.
One of the best ways to reach me is via email: fullmarriageequality at protonmail dot com. [Please note that if I will usually respond within a day or less, so if you you don’t see my response, check your spam or junk folder. If you still don’t see a response, try contacting me another way.]
Another great way is Wire messaging app: fullmarriageequality
I’m also in these places, where I can be sent private/direct messages:
I know there are many people who visit this blog who never reach out, and I understand. Thanks for visiting. Everyone is also welcome to comment, including anonymously, on posts here. You’re also welcome to write to me privately, even if just to say “hi.”
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Do you really think incest will ever be accepted again? It feels like even in places where you'd expect people to be more open minded and tolerant of consensual incest between adults, you still find people thinking our existence is an absolute evil or that no matter the circumstances it's abusive somehow. I feel like I can't even talk to people anymore knowing how much I'd be despised if anyone knew. How do you deal with making friends or acquaintances with people, knowing they'd probably try to ruin your life if they knew your secret?
ReplyDeleteMy daughter and I are active in incest, as are my wife and son. It's uncommon to encounter anyone like us and I've always been careful on revealing this side of our lives. However, I've noticed the disgust, and horror of incest is how people feel they are supposed to react. It's a sort of conditioning that society has put on them and they don't really feel it deeply when made to think about it. I've found if exposed in the right way people are rather supportive. My controversial view is people are much more accepting of incest than they will proclaim. Many more want it in some capacity but feel paralalized by "how they are supposed to feel about it".
DeleteFor now, i keep this side of my life to those i can trust, and others in the community. We're not "there yet" on being completely open about it. However, I do see signs that show a better future may be possible. I feel incest is now is like being gay in the 50s. You're careful, it's underground, they are codes and procedures, but ultimately, it's more common and accepted than one may think at first glance.
Anon, congrats!
DeleteIf you haven't done so already, please reach out to me via email at fullmarriageequality at protonmail dot com