Tuesday, June 9, 2020

Consanguinamory After Physical Distancing

Over the last few months, some of you have been staying home with family due to restrictions and physical distancing requirements, and some of you still are. On the other hand, some of you have been kept away from family (along with everyone else) because these conditions.

We've addressed these realities in several posts like these...

Family Making the Most of the Distance

So Much Time At Home

Spending More Time With Family These Days?

"I'm Stuck At Home With Family"

Now, more and more, people are regaining their freedom and confidence to get out and about and see each other.

What happens now if you entered into new territory with a close relative or family member over the last few months?

You Did the Taboo - Now What?

There is no reason the pleasurable things that happened during the physical distancing must end. You'e definitely not alone!

If you and a family member (or two, or three...) discovered the joy of sharing sexual affection with each other, there's no reason to pull back from that if all involved would like to continue.

For some of you, that will mean continuing your sexting, whether or not you agree to do more when you're face-to-face. For others, that will mean continuing your increased physical affection even though you can now see others. You might even find yourself preferring to keep your close relative(s) as your primary or only sexual relationship.

The possibilities are many, and they are up to those of you involved. What you mutually agree to do and what you negotiate with each other should be up to you, not to anyone who isn't involved.

These posts might help...

Cautious Consanguinamory

Family With Benefits

How To Pull Off Living With Your Consanguinamorous Partner(s)

There are also some of  you who have seen your family member(s) in a new or intensified way as a result of what has been going on for the last few months, but you haven't acted on your feelings. This might help you.

You can tell us what you've been doing or feeling in the comments below. You can also contact Keith privately.  You can also join a forum for people with experience in consanguinamory, and their allies.

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