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Saturday, August 11, 2018
Sons and Daughters Day
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I am a father of 2 but not involved in incest relations. my children are grown up and gone. there was never incest in my family. but I am an observer of the development of the incest issue in society..a keen one I think with an open attitude towards incest.
ReplyDeleteof all the former taboos coming to the fore currently I think incest is the most legit, all factors considered
we have been lied to about our human history and one of the issues misrepresented for sure is incest, and the part it played in human evolution
for so many obvious reasons it seems clear that incest was universal and accepted..and that it is the major factor why there are not more people in the past than there are currently. our ancestors certainly doubled and tripled up. that incest became taboo is surely an interesting story with much about it becoming taboo to do with the evolution of male dominated organized religions.
but even under organized religion incest is legal in more places and people than where it is not illegal.
I held strongly to the incest taboo until research cleared up the issue for me.
while I am not an advocate or activist should the country in which I live legalize incest, make marriage between close relatives legal, I would support it under the principle of community standards. if the people want it its fine
at the same time I would not support marriage in homosexuality for the simple reason that heterosexual incest is open ended and functional biologically, appears to have played a basic part in human survival.
we cannot say the same for homosexuality.
the rise of homosexuality appears to coincide with periods of social decline. that's not good
I cannot emphasize enough my sense of despair over dead biological end that is homosexuality. that is not good at all for humanity and we ought not to set it up as so legit and right. to set up homosexuality as a legit way of life is not consistent with human survival on so many..indeed all levels.
it is the same with transgender
we ought to be making life the best we can for all of society. there must be room made for orientations that are minority so that they may live in peace and take care of themselves
this includes people in incest relations of course. heterosexual incest has an ancient pedigree that is still valid and in line with human increase and survival. but not the rest of the formerly taboo.
legalization of heterosexual incest should not bring into being social terrors. legalization of the other taboos are more than likely to do so.
today seems a good opportunity to voice such an opinion
Yes,We agree with you totally on this!!Consenting adults involved in incest brings less harm than homosexuality for sure!!It is strange very few people understand this or agree.We are a 45 year old mother and 28 year old son that appreciate your commentary.Especially about procreating.If we had felt the freedom to pursue our love by society to love, marry,and procreate with each other 10 years ago.When I was 35 and he was 18.IWe surely would have.I was divorced from his father by that time.He had graduated from marine corps boot camp.After going through all that he was 100 percent certain that I was the only woman he ever wanted.My feelings were the same.The sexual attraction was the same.The vibe during our time together was very strong.unfortunately,we both dared not despite the hints I was giving that I looked at him not just as my son that I loved. very much.I was also looking at him as him becoming my lover.Unfortunately because of the extreme taboo and the problems,hassles,and complications.We did not act upon our mutual feelings.It took us almost eight years later to finally engage in our relationship and live together.After him having two children and a divorce.Myself,having two long term unfulfilled realtionships.The whole time secretly only wanting each other.In a perfect world my son and I would started our relationship during that time 10 years ago.Today we would have children as well.I definitely would not used birth control.still we are very happy that it actually did happen.Though not married we live in a a sposual relationship.He lives in the same house he grew up in with me again.His old bedroom has a bed in it(Forshow) Yet it is really used as a den.Along with my ex-husbands den.He has many hobbie.So it all worked out.My bedroom is now our bedroom.We truly live as man and a woman.It is nothing to be shameful about.I wanted to become pregnant by my son.Yet I have a 4 year oldand 2 year old grandson.Which is enough I think.At least he got to have children.At 43 I did become pregnant by him .Within the 7th week of our sexual relations.I was not trying to get pregnant nor prevent it.It was a very exciting time for us.Av well as worrisome and scary.THe stress from the emotional turmoil of what we were going to do and get away with this and our baby's life.IScared of the judgement and consequences of being found ou.it definitely caused a miscarriage at 21 weeks.Even though we have accepted what happened We still think about our baby girl that we lost.Iam still not on birth control yet it does not seem I can become pregnant.Iam sure it happened for a reason in the grand scheme of things.The way the world still is about are unique relationship.Nice to see someone who feels that it is about time to legalize consensual incest between two adults.
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