All women should be free to be themselves, to have their basic human and civil rights, whether they are cisgender, transgender, or noncomforming or fluid; whether they are asexual, heterosexual, lesbian, bisexual, polysexual, or pansexual; whether they are aromantic, celibate, monogamous, or nonmonogamous. Whether their relationships are exogamous, endogamous, or consanguineous. Whether they are questioning or they are certain. Whether they are raising children or have raised children or not. Whether they are married or partnered or single.
A woman, regardless of her birth, sexual orientation, relationship orientation, race, or religion, should be free to share love, sex, kink, residence, and marriage (and any of those without the others) with ANY and ALL consenting adults, without fear of prosecution, bullying, shaming, or discrimination.
(Same goes for any other adults, too.)
If I can be crass too: too much woman's right talks comes down to the right to be withholding, declining men, and being reserved. I've come to realize we also have the right to submit and give ourselves over to someone, or many people. Many are uncomfortable with us exercising this right for many reasons but rights work both ways. Women have the right to be a slut and choose to be something for a man, or men, to enjoy and expect little in return, just as they have the right to do the opposite; and they should have the right to do so without shame. Those who say i am wrong in doing this are just telling me my rights have limits.If i say i want to be someone's sex toy (pardon the bluntness) then I have that right.
ReplyDeleteI say this because what i encounter again and again, is women who believe they are free, but don't do as they wish or what they feel would bring them happiness because of a shame. The shame and expectations is a way of robbing women of their rights too.
Sara, thanks for your comments. Please email me at fullmarriageequality at protonmail dot com
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