Thursday, April 16, 2020

The Truth About Siblings

Are there siblings who have sex in real life, like the characters on Game of Thrones?

Yes.

Cersei Lannister and Jaime Lannister are fictional characters, but some real-life siblings do have sex. This has gone on for a long as there has been life, regardless of country or class or demographics. This is why the Lannisters have a lot of company in stories both ancient and new.

Abuse happens between siblings, but that's not our focus. Our focus is on consensual interaction, from youthful exploration and experimentation to spousal-style relationships formed in "the golden years," and everything between.



Unfortunately, sometimes sibling consanguinamory involves cheating, and often, when it does, it may be because of the extremely powerful draw of reunion Genetic Sexual Attraction suddenly happening in established lives or because of bigotry against consanguinamory, prompting siblings to marry other people but carry on in secret. There would be less cheating if we'd support relationship rights for all adults, including full marriage equality. Throughout history, there has also been cheating because of the pressure to have children; if it wasn't happening with the spouse, getting pregnant by a sibling was a safe way to have a child who didn't look like someone else's child. (Contrary to myth, most children born to consanguineous parents are healthy.)

In many cultures, past and present, an unmarried woman could live with her brother an not publicly run afoul of laws or customs as she would if she was living without an official marriage with an unrelated man. And, of course, same-sex siblings living together has also been acceptable in such places, which often have bigoted laws and customs against gays, lesbians, bisexuals, etc. Sometimes, when a "long-married" couple looks alike, it's because they're siblings, though legally-sanctioned marriage between siblings still isn't in place in most countries.

Some people find this difficult to believe, because they have no attraction to their siblings, or are turned off by the thought of their siblings as sexual beings. Most of such people are experiencing what is called the Westermarck Effect, which suppresses sexual attraction to people with whom one is raised, closely related or not. However, not everyone experiences the Westermarck Effect, at least not towards all with whom they were raised, and the Effect wouldn't have had a chance to exist between genetic siblings or half siblings who didn't spend much time around each other until after the onset of puberty. The further advantages of already knowing and loving each other, having an existing bond, trust, privacy, proximity, and convenience often fosters sibling revelry. In many situations, there is no good reason why they wouldn't get together, if it is what they wanted,

These relationships have always taken place and they always will, between full and half siblings (raised together or not), as well as stepsiblings and adoptive siblings. They range from limited interaction (mutual masturbation, for example) to intercourse, and from phases, one night stands, and flings to lifelong romances. They are common enough that you know someone who is, or has been involved, and not far from where you're reading this, there are siblings entwined in the throes of ecstasy right now. Very few of these relationships, fortunately, will be subjected to scrutiny by law enforcement even if they are being carried out where they're still criminalized, either because they're never explicitly outed, nobody rats them out, or local officers recognize that it is a waste of public resources to arrest and investigate people for loving each other how they mutually agree.

So... if you were curious, yes, these relationships do exist. If you're in one or want to be in one, you're not alone. And if you know of one, please be an ally and not a rat.

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7 comments:

  1. Another nice article, thanks Keith! By the way, since adult consensual incest is not a crime in either New Jersey or Rhode Island and people are free to go and live where they want in USA, we would expect that, if critics of ACI were correct, the birth defect rates in NJ and RI should be much higher than in other US states. Is that the case do you think?

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    1. I once compared the per-capita birth defect rates in Rhode Island and Texas, since Texas is one of the few states criminalizing sex between first cousins. There was no significant difference.

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  2. Great article, I have been sexually attracted to my sister for many years.

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    1. Does she know? If you want to talk more about it, we can do so via email at fullmarriageequality at protonmail dot com

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    2. My sister always subconsciously knew and so did I.We have wanted to be partners since our mid teens .Yet always suppressed it.We are now 51 and 49 and finally involved with each other for the last 4 months.It started 3 months after her husband died.I have been divorced with a son.She has 2 grandchildren,2children, and 2 step chilldren.The children and stepchildren range from 18 to 28.At this point we have no hangups or regrets about this/No guilt or shame.We will continue to be in a relationship forever.the only bummer is we cannot have A normal open relationship because of society.No one can know.Iam close to all of her step children and biological.we would love for them to know how happy we are.Yet that would be impossible in this world.We plan on never being caught and we are planning on living together in the future that will not be suspicous.Sad because it the best relationship we have been in.Though she had an absolutely lovely relationship with her second husband.What we have with each other is the most powerful intense feeling imaginable.She is my sister best friend and lover.It is a more deeper connection for us.We can never marry.Though we already know this is a romance that will never end.We never made love with another person the way we do with each other.we enjoy each other's company more than any other lover.Touching and the scent of each other The fact that we are related makes it better in every way.To express our love with each other .to bond like this is incredible.Mindblowing!!Iam glad that me sister always gave me hints throughout the years.I was not like that.Though she knew I always wanted her as a mate.WE both suppressed our feelings because of society.When I was a young man in the military for 4 years .Her letters to me were always with perfume on it.I really did not know what to say or ask her why.During her first marriage is when we became very distant.It was a bad marriage for her.During the separation and her divorce .We became very close again and started hanging out again.Going to eat and downtown.We both felt our attraction to each other.Yet we did not know if we should act upon them.There were talks with hints of wanting me from her.Also,more touches, hugs,and lingering kisses.This year I found out she would have began a sexual and romantic relationship with me.If I would have given her feedback.She even fantasied becoming pregnant by me!Unfortynately,Nothing happened she did eventually remarry to a wonderful man.Who I liked and his two sons too.During their marriage we still had those feelings.yet she kept them hidden again.Her second husband and her could talk about everything.....I mean anything.So he knew how close we were as siblings and her"Crazy" thoughts of want to be intimate with me after her divorce from her husband.He understood and said they were normal .That people fantasize on things they would never do in reality.That as a young boy he had a crush on his aunt.A great guy yet even greater when towards the end of his life the realized that my sister's sexual attraction for me and intense feelings were something that were always going to be there.No matter how much she suppressed it.Though that had a very strong love for each other.He knew deep down inside it ate her up that she could never pursue a life with me,marriage,and children.Without major obstacles and problems.That even though she had children and a beautiful second marriage.She gave up o n the idea of being with me.Only because we are brother and sister.For no other reason.Knowing this he wanted her to pursue me and have a life with me(If I was still open to it).That was his wish for her.He also gave me many hints in our conversations that I did not process.Like I needed to move next to my sister and not live two hours away from her.He asked me "Don't you want her to take of you?".I kept silent not knowing what to say. or how to process it.Yet knowing the truth now.Makes my love for her alll the more ethical and right.The most natural thing.

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    3. Anonymous, congrats on your love with your sister.Thanks for commenting on my blog. I’d like to communicate more with you. Please email me at fullmarriageequality at ProtonMail dot com

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    4. You are welcome,Keith!I did not realise I wrote a book!There is a good chance we will email you.We just do not want to be traced.

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