tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3152584185487706890.post7688899325897958864..comments2024-03-13T03:17:56.423-07:00Comments on Full Marriage Equality: Frequently Asked Question: Why Is Incest Illegal?Full Marriage Equalityhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03029782688617414753noreply@blogger.comBlogger121125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3152584185487706890.post-67341296465570882092022-10-20T01:29:15.478-07:002022-10-20T01:29:15.478-07:00Yeah me too, or parents who know or knew of their ...Yeah me too, or parents who know or knew of their son and daughter having a relationship or just having sex. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3152584185487706890.post-53199890249962472662022-10-19T10:53:05.993-07:002022-10-19T10:53:05.993-07:00I would love some more content on sibling relation...I would love some more content on sibling relationships that aren't hidden from parents and how parenting evolves these relationships Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3152584185487706890.post-65117149732890366502021-09-23T23:10:34.738-07:002021-09-23T23:10:34.738-07:00agreed that governments should never ever force us...agreed that governments should never ever force us to do anything. taboo is arbitrary.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3152584185487706890.post-33968716009058348932021-01-25T01:50:02.037-08:002021-01-25T01:50:02.037-08:00I double and triple that...precisely the quality o...I double and triple that...precisely the quality of approach and content I was hoping for. this comment has up for a year already and only now I see it. I have to pass by more often. there are gems here indeednavin lamervichhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17203405154293730848noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3152584185487706890.post-54616847431418120902020-08-18T14:53:18.064-07:002020-08-18T14:53:18.064-07:00I totally agree with You that it's nobody'...I totally agree with You that it's nobody's business but your own.<br />Congratulations 👍🏻Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3152584185487706890.post-90384520818771509432019-08-08T07:02:52.187-07:002019-08-08T07:02:52.187-07:00In India?How do you know?It's a very tradition...In India?How do you know?It's a very traditional society and most cases are of incestuous rapes so there is no really acceptability.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3152584185487706890.post-669074591869785252019-08-08T07:00:48.035-07:002019-08-08T07:00:48.035-07:00Where is this fortune teller?Where is this fortune teller?Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3152584185487706890.post-75615038444558255552019-01-17T17:55:49.145-08:002019-01-17T17:55:49.145-08:00Email me, that is. Thanks.Email me, that is. Thanks.Full Marriage Equalityhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03029782688617414753noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3152584185487706890.post-86495705236356445442019-01-17T17:55:10.669-08:002019-01-17T17:55:10.669-08:00Anonymous, thanks for your comment. I’d like to he...Anonymous, thanks for your comment. I’d like to hear more about your situation. Please errr me at fullmarriageequality at protonmail dot com Full Marriage Equalityhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03029782688617414753noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3152584185487706890.post-78413150605701930832019-01-17T10:48:22.395-08:002019-01-17T10:48:22.395-08:00I feel if LGBT people can have sex, marry and have...I feel if LGBT people can have sex, marry and have a lasting loving relationship. Why can't 2 consenting adult have sex or even get married. Related or not. I would love to have a loving relationship with a close adult relative. That is what's stopping us. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3152584185487706890.post-288083661191919362018-12-26T13:17:41.803-08:002018-12-26T13:17:41.803-08:00consanguinamory should have been kept legal long a...consanguinamory should have been kept legal long ago.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3152584185487706890.post-1795047571680405222018-12-25T09:30:22.255-08:002018-12-25T09:30:22.255-08:00Yet I find real solid information about the curren...Yet I find real solid information about the current state of incest everywhere very poor here. I see this question was asked in one of the forums passing through.<br />I don't like those forums..there is nothing there of value..or very little if any. their content is not even good porn...far from titillating. <br /><br />I did find that question valid however: where in the world is Incest of regular, legal practice..'and how does it go routinely?' my addition.<br /><br />the impression I have is that in Japan, India, Europe - Spain, Portugal, Holland, France, Belgium etc..in New Jersey and Rhode Island there surely is a lot going on that would be helpful to know.<br /><br />I read in the regular media some time ago that a brother and sister with 2 children of their own had applied to get married..intending to force movement on the marriage question. what Spain did was to give him legal paternity for the children..i.e is name was put on the birth certificates as father even though she is his sister<br /><br />now how far has that gone..does registered legal parenthood now apply to all consanguineous couples with children in Spain?<br /><br />Did Portugal, France etc follow-suit?<br /><br />some posters reported that incest pron flowing out of cultures like Japan and India is not representative of the true state of incest in those countries. is that true? I believe that the truth would be closer to the incest porn. otherwise why make it? who consumes Japanese incest porn outside of Japan that permits the Japanese to make so much of it?<br />if the rest of the world is in fact so incest averse then the rest of the world isn't buying Japanese incest porn. the market for for such product then must be Japan itself..along with korea and the rest of the far east Asian world. and why would they be so interested in incest porn?<br /><br />Same with India. there appears to be an inordinate interest and appetite for incest content in all forms, in Indian society. how come if that does not reflect to whatever degree incest occurs in India?<br /><br />in Canada incest is parent/child, brother/sister. a nephew can marry his aunt/uncle his niece in all of Canada..cousins can do to as far as I know.<br /><br />and what happens in Rhode Island and New Jersey in the USA?<br /><br />despite the ridiculous prurient and surely fake content in the incest blogs here, I am sure such prurient interest suggest a whole lot of incest going on in America. and if there are places in America that offers haven for whatever, those who practice such activity would concentrate there.<br /><br />so while not in anyone's face, incest must surely be at least a noticeable factor in the routine life of the 2 American states that have legalized such relationships...<br /><br />then there is LatAm where incest is legal in most forms over almost the entire sub-continent, and for a very long time now...what goes on there?<br /><br />it might be..or ought to be the business of those in the fore-front of the fight to achieve the freedom for all adults to marry legally, whom they love regardless of gender and blood relations ought to be developing accurate knowledge of the state of such relations the world over to further their/the struggle<br /><br />those incest relations blogs do not help but harm the fight. they are full of infantile, confessional and 'full of intent' crap that surely is best for children..little boys looking for masturbation content.<br /><br />what actually is going on then..is the incidence of incest in the world a widespread and growing practice that warrants a struggle for legalization?<br /><br />then again..most of the world is already incest legal the struggle should be won easily, if there is a push from belownavin lamervichhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17203405154293730848noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3152584185487706890.post-71503415583427568292018-08-26T21:42:13.016-07:002018-08-26T21:42:13.016-07:00I support consang relationships/consensual incest....I support consang relationships/consensual incest. I believe strongly in full marriage equality, particularly between distant cousins. Having a common ancestor isn't the same as incest -- It's not incest. Though I also believe in any form of consensual incest. It doesn't hurt anybody if the participants are of reasonable age and if it's truly consensual. You really can't help who you are attracted to or fall in love with and it's no one else's right to judge you for it. The issue of birth defects is a poor argument, because would you say anyone who is knowingly at risk for having a child with a birth defect should not be allowed to have children? Birth defects happen with plenty of non-consang couples. Children of incest usually don't have birth defects, anyway, but children with birth defects have a right to be born. And wouldn't it seem more likely that generations upon generations of incest would produce birth defects, rather than just one time? I think the birth defect line of reasoning is just a convenient excuse to mask the disgust factor. Here's the thing: Incest isn't for everyone, and that's OK. It doesn't have to be for everyone. It's a small minority of people who engage in consensual incest. Supporters of consensual consang relationships don't agree with child molestation or any kind of adult sexual relations with minors. I just hope that this is understood clearly. And you don't have to be personally inclined to engage in consang relationships in order to support those who are.supporter of marriage equalitynoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3152584185487706890.post-37266506657810951412018-05-17T06:59:54.968-07:002018-05-17T06:59:54.968-07:00Hi Keith. I have just read what you wrote all tha...Hi Keith. I have just read what you wrote all that time ago in 2011. It is so well said and concise! You are a good writer.Your work would probably translate very well into other languages. Thank you for great contributions towards human rights. Today I thought about all those people who were not in consang relationships, and yet had babies with birth defects.They might have been more lucky with children or just as happy had they married a close family member.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3152584185487706890.post-69289169653476252922018-01-10T04:33:15.515-08:002018-01-10T04:33:15.515-08:00So you're saying it IS a choice to be related ...So you're saying it IS a choice to be related to someone? You don't decide how much DNA you share with someone, and if you happen to fall in love with a close relative, you don't get to say, hey lets stop being related. (Though I personally believe the relation makes the love stronger) Sure they could just suppress their feelings for each other all together and deal instead with the emotional distress that would cause. People with genetic diseases COULD also suppress their desires too.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3152584185487706890.post-39253433347430776972017-11-26T23:01:36.419-08:002017-11-26T23:01:36.419-08:00because it isn't a choice to have genetic dise...because it isn't a choice to have genetic diseases. do you think people like me decided to have neroutransmiter imbalances and immune systems that attack our thyroid glands? no we didn't. incest is a choice. stop comparing us to people who choose to participate in it. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3152584185487706890.post-57184534659079545072017-10-28T14:34:42.219-07:002017-10-28T14:34:42.219-07:00Congrats on your love! Please write me at fullmarr...Congrats on your love! Please write me at fullmarriageequality at protonmail dot com and I can probably make things easier.Full Marriage Equalityhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03029782688617414753noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3152584185487706890.post-51745165905938827752017-10-28T14:28:38.742-07:002017-10-28T14:28:38.742-07:00I have recently reconnected with my fathers side o...I have recently reconnected with my fathers side of the family, and I have completely fallen in love with my half brother. We are both consenting adults and are currently in a secret relationship with each other. We have known each other for just 3 months now, but I couldn't bare separation, I feel like he is my soulmate and my best friend. The depth of the love I feel for him is like nothing I have ever known before, and would never know with anyone else. I could happily spend the rest of my life with him, even if that meant I didn't have children. I feel blessed to be loved and cherished so much by him. The most difficult part of this relationship is keeping it secret, and having to lie to everyone we love. I totally understand why people don't understand this kind of situation, I can honestly say that I would have struggled to comprehend this kind of thing before. But whether this is morally wrong or not, this is how I feel in my heart. I'm so relieved to see I'm not the only one out there going through this.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3152584185487706890.post-64281493916932632012017-09-29T08:53:59.650-07:002017-09-29T08:53:59.650-07:00Comgrats in your love! I'm interested in conne...Comgrats in your love! I'm interested in connecting via email. Write me at fullmarriageequalty at Protonmail dot comFull Marriage Equalityhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03029782688617414753noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3152584185487706890.post-44565923283805638562017-09-29T08:02:06.736-07:002017-09-29T08:02:06.736-07:00My sister and I began an adult consensual sex rela...My sister and I began an adult consensual sex relationship in our 50s when she was past menopause. We would not get married as we wish to hide it from her children but at our age it's no business of the government to tell us we cannot sleep with one another. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3152584185487706890.post-58621621726792168872017-03-22T18:45:57.336-07:002017-03-22T18:45:57.336-07:00It is rather disturbing how people can be thrown i...It is rather disturbing how people can be thrown into prison for loving each other, isn't it?Full Marriage Equalityhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03029782688617414753noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3152584185487706890.post-9935884421974360652017-03-22T17:35:01.827-07:002017-03-22T17:35:01.827-07:00I nearly puked in my mouth reading thisI nearly puked in my mouth reading thisAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3152584185487706890.post-30606811769938661042017-02-23T11:12:24.788-08:002017-02-23T11:12:24.788-08:00Part 3 0f 3.
I decided to tell my sister about it...Part 3 0f 3.<br /><br />I decided to tell my sister about it and see what she thought. My sister thought very deeply about it. It was a groundbreaking moment for the both of us, to think that regardless of our gender and family relationship we could actually be meant for each other.<br /><br />This is when we both finally decided to be in an actual relationship. That we would really be a couple, even if we could never tell anyone or get married. Our love for each other is so deep, we don’t care about appearance, gender, or even that we are siblings. When we look at each other, we don’t see us that way. We are simply two souls that love each other, that have been blessed to always be together and share this life and beyond together. I only wish everyone could find a love this pure, blind to our meaningless bodies and care about the person inside.<br /><br />I noticed someone’s comment on here talking about if people saw a couple in a consanguineous relationship on the street, but didn’t know they were related, they would think they were just a happy couple. Unfortunately for my sister and myself, we look almost identical, although we are a year apart. Immediately upon meeting someone, even walking past someone in the grocery store, we’ll get the excited “Are you twins?!” comment. It is impossible to deny that we are related. I envy those consanguineous couples that can at least get away with walking on the street together holding hands. I so desperately want to be able to go on a date and share an innocent kiss with my soulmate. Whenever we go out together, we never touch each other at all, even worse we have to constantly deny the twin comment and admit that we are sisters.<br /><br />Even so, no matter what anyone thinks, we have found true happiness. When I found this article I realized we are not alone, and there are actually people rooting for a couple like us to be able to get married. It’s a shame that a couple like my parents were able to get married but I can’t marry someone whom I’m deeply in love with.<br /><br />Lastly, I would just like to say, this entire page never really discussed same sex consanguineous relationships. Since we are not able to breed, the argument against us being together because of the genetic problems with our offspring is irrelevant. Besides, even heterosexual consanguineous couples might not want to have kids.<br /><br />Thanks again for writing this article, lets hope some day in the future things can change and marriage will be free for all those who love each other.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3152584185487706890.post-54645759765479907102017-02-23T11:12:00.162-08:002017-02-23T11:12:00.162-08:00Part 2 of 3
However, even with each other’s comfo...Part 2 of 3<br /><br />However, even with each other’s comfort, we were still depressed. My life was a complete mess, I wasn’t sure what to think anymore, I wanted clarity on my future. So I decided to visit a fortune teller. I won’t try to convince anyone to do the same, or that they’re legitimate by any means, but it was a life changing event for me and crucial to my future.<br /><br />The fortune teller was extremely accurate in describing my personality, and other aspects of my life. Then she decided to tell me this: “Your soulmate is someone you already know, with the same color hair as you.”<br /><br />I immediately thought of my sister, and then discarded the idea disturbed with myself. However, it’s true, my sister and I do share the same unique hair color, and I’ve never met anyone else who matched it. Upon meeting people, especially children, they point out, “You have the same hair.”<br /><br />Then the fortune teller seem very confused and slightly concerned for me, she told me: “There is something barring your relationship though, something in the way.”<br /><br />I had already discarded the thought of my sister and began to think the fortune teller was just telling me some exaggerated story. Even so, I always kept what she told me in the back of my mind.<br /><br />Shortly after this event my sister started getting close to another guy. I noticed them getting closer to each other and I started to get upset. I would discourage her from texting him and try to keep the topic off him. Finally, the day I was dreading happened. My sister told me she wanted to date him, and that we needed to stop being intimate. It took all the strength in my heart to tell her it was fine, that she could date him. I always heard and believed in the advice: When you really love someone, you just want them to be happy.<br /><br />However, after laying in bed for what seemed hours in complete depression, I finally realized to myself that I was in love with her, that I never wanted to be apart from her, and I didn’t want anyone getting in-between us. I had never felt so miserable, I hated myself. I broke down into the most painful sobbing I have ever experienced. We shared a bed at that time, and it was impossible to hide it from her. She woke up and asked me what was going on. This is when I finally confessed to her and told her that I couldn’t live without her. She seemed a little weird out by it, but she comforted me and held me close. She promised she would never enter another relationship and we could just always be together.<br /><br />I felt even more disgusting than before. How could I selfishly force her to be with me, in an incestuous same sex relationship, and keep her from ever finding someone just because I couldn’t handle it. I kept my thoughts to myself that night, and a deep pain started to grow inside me.<br /><br />The next morning I sat in starbucks all by myself. I hated myself, I hated myself so much. I had come to the conclusion that I was a disgusting and horrible human being. I had always been a very happy and optimistic person, aside from the occasional and confusing pain I felt whenever my sister would date someone. I never had suicidal thoughts, I always loved myself and thought I was a good person. That morning everything came crumbling down, I so desperately wanted to escape my own skin. My heart hurt so badly I thought I might actually die of heartbreak. But then a thought came to me, I suddenly remembered what the fortune teller had told me some time ago. I repeated her words in my mind over and over again. Maybe I wasn’t so disgusting after all…Maybe my sister really was my soulmate.<br />Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3152584185487706890.post-20361058247810078992017-02-23T11:11:28.634-08:002017-02-23T11:11:28.634-08:00My post is a little long so I had to break it in t...My post is a little long so I had to break it in three parts. This is part 1 of 3.<br /><br />First of all, I would just like to say thank you for writing this article. Being in a consanguineous relationship myself, I finally decided to look this up. This has been very encouraging to me and I even cried while reading it. I would like to share my story to possibly help others facing the same difficulties as myself.<br /><br />Ever since childhood I have been in a close relationship with my sister. We share all the same interests and do everything together. We’ve never enjoyed being with someone else as much as we’ve enjoyed each other’s company. We literally spend all our time together and hardly ever disagree about anything. Others have noticed how well we get along and even have stated how they wished their children could get along that well.<br /><br />As we grew, we became drawn to each other, not out of sexual attraction, or even for experimentation. The amount of love we had for each other was impossible to ignore, like a very strong magnet. By the time we were young teens we were already kissing.<br /><br />This is where I would like to clarify that we are both female. However, we are NOT lesbians. We are not attracted to women, and never will be. We are both attracted to men. Growing up we even shared the same crushes on guys. Whenever we interacted with each other in a intimate way, we treated it like we were just having fun.<br /><br />We continued to get along with each other and share all of our hobbies. I gradually realized around the age of thirteen that people getting along so well wasn’t a normal thing. That even married couples had a difficult time coexisting as well as we did. I happily told my sister, “I think we’re soulmates.” My sister was disturbed by this and I decided to clarify, “Like friend soulmates, not lovers.”<br /><br />Even so, I would have occasional dreams about being in a relationship with my sister. It freaked me out. Even though I would be intimate with her, I had full plans on finding a boyfriend some day and getting married.<br /><br />My sister is more outgoing than myself and ended up getting in a few relationships. I didn’t understand why, but every time she did I would go into depression. I was so confused with myself, I didn’t understand why I would feel that way when I should be happy for her. I even cried to my parents one time, in which case they basically patted me on the back and then ignored me.<br /><br />In and out of her relationships we continued to be intimate with each other, and slowly over time our intimacy grew. Since I am not attracted to her, I started to become uncomfortable with it. I told her I wanted to stop, that being with her like that made me feel like a lesbian, which I am not. So we stopped.<br /><br />This is where we both entered a very dark chapter in our life. Our parents got into a long and ugly divorce, and at one point our father even physically attacked our mother while we were at home. At the same time, our half brother was involved in drugs and stealing from us. As if that wasn’t enough, our dog passed away. We were extremely depressed to say the least. We only had each other as comfort, we were the only ones that could understand each other and what we were going through. We fell into each other again, more passionately than ever before, and I stopped caring about our gender.<br />Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com