tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3152584185487706890.post5375851724230940880..comments2024-03-13T03:17:56.423-07:00Comments on Full Marriage Equality: Tips For Switching to PolyamoryFull Marriage Equalityhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03029782688617414753noreply@blogger.comBlogger10125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3152584185487706890.post-84656451652580083052018-09-12T20:11:42.251-07:002018-09-12T20:11:42.251-07:00humans are not really designed to be monogamous ca...humans are not really designed to be monogamous cause monogamous relationships don’t always work.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3152584185487706890.post-45953469153236134382017-08-10T18:33:58.618-07:002017-08-10T18:33:58.618-07:00Okay! Last one! Really.
Awesome Post!!!!!!! Keep ...Okay! Last one! Really. <br />Awesome Post!!!!!!! Keep up the good work!!!!!!<br /><br />ANDREW MADRIDnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3152584185487706890.post-88043923245856782382017-08-10T18:31:56.785-07:002017-08-10T18:31:56.785-07:00Awesome Post Dude!!!! I really like it when you m...Awesome Post Dude!!!! I really like it when you make me think. Im sure it drives you nuts when I post like 20 times or more but you really do a great job. I think that should tell you that what you are writing is good , when I leave 20 messages. LOL<br />Seriously, it is so wonderful to be apart of a community like this that you created here. It's wonderful to be around like minded people. You do such a great job, you should write a book or something.ANDREW MADRIDnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3152584185487706890.post-61529383643867672122017-08-10T18:25:34.685-07:002017-08-10T18:25:34.685-07:00I have always been polyamorous and I dont know of ...I have always been polyamorous and I dont know of any other way to be. <br />But when I stop and think about people wanting to "try" to be like me. LOl That really makes me laugh. That is so cool that there are people out there that like my lifestyle. LOL That just goes to show you that we are winning . People are wanting to try my lifestyle out!!! YEAH!!!! :) :)ANDREW MADRIDnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3152584185487706890.post-55270130658662442152017-08-10T18:17:53.054-07:002017-08-10T18:17:53.054-07:00Im polyamorous. And the fact is that it's all ...Im polyamorous. And the fact is that it's all I ever knew. But the fact is that no matter what. I am always going to try my best to learn and grow as a human being. I don't have all the answers for you. There will be so many life lessons that you will learn on your journey. No 2 polyamorous lives are the same. Just be open to whatever comes your way, talk to your partners, be honest, have faith, trust, communicate. Love your partners and they will love you. If you take care of your relationships whether you have 1,2,3,or more partners make time for all of them, treat them equally and with respect. Just remember that it's like a normal relationship but you have more people to be with.<br />I don't know. Maybe i am just old fashioned, but don't be one of these young kids that it's just pump and dump. You should be in it for the long haul. Be dedicated to your relationships. I guess, you get out of your relationships what you put into them. Also. Its not a game. If you treat it like a game then people will get hurt. That aint cool!! Plus you ruin the polyamory name for everyone esle.ANDREW MADRIDnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3152584185487706890.post-42424959050488254042017-08-10T18:09:44.107-07:002017-08-10T18:09:44.107-07:00I think there is just so much to say that it's...I think there is just so much to say that it's impossible to list all the answers that someone would need. The fact is that you should be in it for the right reasons and just remember that they are all relationships. They are all unique. And above all else, be honest with yourself. Be brutally honest with yourself and ask yourself the really hard questions. Is it just for sex? Am I ready for this? Am I jealous? There are so many questions that I would ask first. Treat it like your getting married. Dont just go into it half XXX. Again, self edited. I would also think back on my previous relationships and see how they worked out. If you had bad luck before in your previous relationships then I would stay away from Polyamory. ANDREW MADRIDnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3152584185487706890.post-26924168080530329822017-08-10T18:03:24.809-07:002017-08-10T18:03:24.809-07:00And just understand that if you try it, you can...And just understand that if you try it, you can't just expect for your life to go back to the way it was. It will change you to a certain degree.<br />My opinion is that there are more monogamous people out there then polyamorous so if you do try this out be respectful and tell the person that you are interested in that you are polyamorous first. its not cool to get someones hopes up and have them fall in love with you only to find out that you are polyamorous and they dont want to be apart of that lifestyle. That would suck. Be kind to your partners and be upfront. Dont be an XXXXXX. I edited that so nobody calls me a potty mouth. :) lol I self edit. haha I have been called a butt before but i dont want to be the guy that has a potty mouth. lolANDREW MADRIDnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3152584185487706890.post-37658492337451367162017-08-10T17:58:15.310-07:002017-08-10T17:58:15.310-07:00I also feel that if you want to try polyamory. Do ...I also feel that if you want to try polyamory. Do it when you are single. Dont complicate things by being in a relationship before hand. It will be hard enough for you alone let alone another person along for the ride.ANDREW MADRIDnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3152584185487706890.post-56848370548908281752017-08-10T17:55:40.579-07:002017-08-10T17:55:40.579-07:00Another major problem is that people try to be pol...Another major problem is that people try to be polyamorous because of sexual fantasies. Sex is not a reason to try Polyamory. If that is your goal then you are in it for the wrong reasons. My opinion is that you should take time to think about why you are trying this out. It's like getting married man, dont treat polyamory like a light switch. If you do then nothing but bad will come from it.ANDREW MADRIDnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3152584185487706890.post-10030149672958190852017-08-10T17:53:16.278-07:002017-08-10T17:53:16.278-07:00What a very interesting topic. Hmm. I am polyamoro...What a very interesting topic. Hmm. I am polyamorous. I have always been that way. I don't know how not to be this way. My opinion is that people are very complicated no matter what lifestyle you have and because of this you need to be extremely flexible and allow life to happen. You can't be rigid or to hold on to things too tightly. Each person you are with is unique and different and you can't expect everyone to act or be a certain way. That's what I see going wrong with so many people. They think that they can just try polyamory out but I see too many times it falls apart because they arent flexible in life. If I could give one piece of advice it would be to be flexible. But being flexible takes time to learn. You cant just wake up one day and be flexible. It takes practice. I met this girl before who claimed that she was polyamorous and wanted that lifestyle but whenever she talked about things she would tell me how her mom and dad did things and so that is the way it would be. I tried to explain to her that the family unit has to work together and decide. So it doesn't really work if you are rigid. ANDREW MADRIDnoreply@blogger.com